Fear Not

NUGGETS OF GOLD a monthly Blog by David Nofziger

Fear Not

March 24, 2020

David Nofziger

     “Fear not.”  These two simple words are found throughout the Bible.  God does not want us to live in fear.  The Apostle Paul stated the same thing in II Timothy 1:7, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”  But sadly, many of us live with way too much fear and anxiety in our lives.
     Fear is a powerful emotion, and it is meant to protect us.  You are to be afraid when your life is in danger.  Your body swings into action to protect you from a dangerous situation.  Adrenalin begins to flow freely to give you strength.  Your breathing becomes more shallow and intense to get as much oxygen to the body as possible.  Your heart rate then increases to pump that oxygen rapidly to your muscles and brain.  Your pupils dilate to help you see better, your hearing becomes more acute, and every sense in your body is enhanced to make you super aware of your surroundings.   All of these reactions help prepare us to fight and survive the danger.
Unfortunately, most of the things we fear in our life are not really dangerous.  Yes, they may feel scary, but in reality, they cannot harm us.  If fear is a common emotion for you, all those body reactions that are meant to protect you, are actually hard on your body if they occur too frequently.   Plus, that same emotion can also paralyze us, depending on the “fight or flight” response that we develop as a coping mechanism.  God wants you healthy, and that is why He wants to help you conquer fear in your life.
     I know it is hard to overcome fear, but let me give you a couple of guidelines to help.  First of all, think rationally about the object of your fear or anxiety.  The emotion may be very strong, but ask yourself, “Is this really a danger to me?”  Most things that we fear are not truly dangerous.  That means you can face the object creating fear and not be harmed physically.  Once you determine rationally that the object of your fear cannot harm you, then you can begin to move toward the fear.
      Now you’re thinking, “You are joking, right.  Why in the world would I do that?”  After years of counseling, I have learned an important truth.  If you allow yourself to be paralyzed by fear or run from fear, the fear you feel will grow stronger.  The opposite is also true.  If you face fear and begin to move toward the object of fear, it becomes smaller and less scary.
     But it is alright to move toward fear slowly.  Take a step, your heart rate increases.  That was hard but now relax.  You are still okay.  Take a deep cleansing breath and feel your heart rate slowing down again.  When you feel ready, take another step.  Feel the courage beginning to rise up inside you.  Each step becomes a little easier – as long as you take it slow and remember to breathe and relax.  In psychology, this is called exposure therapy or desensitization.  Eventually, you will discover that you are no longer afraid of that situation, and the resulting joy and freedom is contagious.  You desire to conquer all fear in your life.
     If after practicing these steps, you find that the fear is still too great and continues to paralyze you or rob you of the life that God wants to give you, then do some further research on overcoming fear or seek some professional help.  Life is too short to be paralyzed by a fear that keeps you from living life in all of its fullness.
     Remember, God wants your life to be filled with “power, love, and a sound mind.”  Let me close with another encouraging word from the Apostle Paul, “Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.”  (Philippians 4:6-7 – The Message Bible)

David Nofziger has been the director and lead counselor at Hope Alive Counseling Services in Defiance since 1989 and author of “Brain Washed, Transforming Your Self-Image through the Amazing Love of God.” He and his wife, Sue, attend Family Christian Center in Defiance where they head up the church’s mission program. Visit HopeAliveCounseling.com for more information.

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BRAIN WASHED Transforming Your Self-Image Through the Amazing Love of God, by David Nofziger.

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6 thoughts on “Fear Not”

  1. I don’t deal with fear and anxiety very much, but I’m thankful for you offering up resources for those who do. It’s easy to put off facing fear, because of the discomfort. You give a great way to head toward it. One step at a time.

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